{"id":5591,"date":"2021-01-08T11:10:56","date_gmt":"2021-01-08T11:10:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/?p=5591"},"modified":"2021-01-08T11:10:57","modified_gmt":"2021-01-08T11:10:57","slug":"evlilige-dogru-adim-adim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/2021\/01\/08\/evlilige-dogru-adim-adim\/","title":{"rendered":"Evlili\u011fe Do\u011fru Ad\u0131m Ad\u0131m"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Nilsu Dalaran &#8211;<a href=\"https:\/\/nilsudalaran.weebly.com\/blog\/evlilige-dogru-adm-adm\"> D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn Dernek<\/a> &#8211; Comd 357 Multimedia Journalism Foto Proje<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llard\u0131r, sevdi\u011finiz insanla hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 birle\u015ftirmek hep uzun ve u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 olmu\u015ftur. Art\u0131k devir de\u011fi\u015fti dedi\u011finizi duyar gibiyim ancak geleneksel bir evlilik s\u00fcreci ge\u00e7irmek \u00e7o\u011fumuzun ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz sonu. Evlilik denince akla ilk gelen d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn olsa da d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden \u00f6nce pek \u00e7ok basamak bulunuyor. Bu s\u00fcreci sizin i\u00e7in daha kolay hale getirebilmek ad\u0131na 7 ad\u0131mda evlili\u011fe giden yolu sizlerle payla\u015fmak istedim.<br \/>\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow aligncenter\" data-effect=\"slide\"><div class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_container swiper-container\"><ul class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_swiper-wrapper swiper-wrapper\"><li class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_slide swiper-slide\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"600\" height=\"800\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_image wp-image-5592\" data-id=\"5592\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/200.jpg?resize=600%2C800\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_caption gallery-caption\">Evlenme teklifi bu s\u00fcrecin ba\u015f\u0131 ve en heyecanl\u0131 an\u0131d\u0131r. Art\u0131k eskisi gibi tek ta\u015ftan ibaret de\u011fildir bu ad\u0131m. Tekta\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7tikten sonra ise s\u0131ra geldi en g\u00fczel evlenme teklifi konseptini haz\u0131rlamaya. Sizin i\u00e7in bu \u00f6zel an\u0131 unutulmaz k\u0131lmak ad\u0131na haz\u0131rlanacak s\u00fcrprizin kli\u015felerden uzak olmas\u0131na dikkat edin <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_slide swiper-slide\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_image wp-image-5593\" data-id=\"5593\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/201.jpg?resize=800%2C533\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_caption gallery-caption\">\u0130kinci ad\u0131mda ailelerin ba\u015frolde oldu\u011fu biz gen\u00e7lerin cefas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekti\u011fimiz k\u0131z isteme var. K\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n heyecandan ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131, damat aday\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u015fap gibi tuzlu kahveyi i\u00e7ti\u011fi bu gece ne kadar eski bir gelenek olsada ayn\u0131 heyecan\u0131yla hayat\u0131m\u0131zda yerini al\u0131yor. Yalan yok \u00e7o\u011fumuz da bu geceyi fazlas\u0131yla e\u011flenceli buluyor.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_slide swiper-slide\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"600\" height=\"800\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_image wp-image-5594\" data-id=\"5594\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/202.jpg?resize=600%2C800\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_caption gallery-caption\">S\u0131ra geldi ilk s\u00f6zlerin verildi\u011fi ana. Bu g\u00fcn de en az bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn kadar haz\u0131rl\u0131k ve u\u011fra\u015f gerektirir. Ni\u015fan mekan\u0131, pastas\u0131, s\u00fcslemesi, boh\u00e7as\u0131, elbiseleri derken tatl\u0131 yorgunluk s\u00fcreci resmi olarak ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn bir fragman\u0131 say\u0131labilecek bu g\u00fcn kelime anlam\u0131 olarak iz, i\u015faret, belirti demektir. Yani k\u0131saca beraber bir hayat kurulaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ilk izidir.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_slide swiper-slide\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_image wp-image-5595\" data-id=\"5595\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/203.jpg?resize=800%2C533\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_caption gallery-caption\">S\u0131ra geldi ilk s\u00f6zlerin verildi\u011fi ana. Bu g\u00fcn de en az bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn kadar haz\u0131rl\u0131k ve u\u011fra\u015f gerektirir. Ni\u015fan mekan\u0131, pastas\u0131, s\u00fcslemesi, boh\u00e7as\u0131, elbiseleri derken tatl\u0131 yorgunluk s\u00fcreci resmi olarak ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn bir fragman\u0131 say\u0131labilecek bu g\u00fcn kelime anlam\u0131 olarak iz, i\u015faret, belirti demektir. Yani k\u0131saca beraber bir hayat kurulaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ilk izidir.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_slide swiper-slide\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"600\" height=\"800\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_image wp-image-5596\" data-id=\"5596\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/204.jpg?resize=600%2C800\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_caption gallery-caption\">Ni\u015fan, k\u0131na derken geldik b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcne. Tela\u015f ve heyecan doruktayken bir es vermek ad\u0131na bu gelenek belkide \u00e7o\u011fumuzun en sevdi\u011fidir. Kap\u0131lar a\u00e7\u0131lmaz, \u00e7alg\u0131lar susmaz, konvoylar uzar da uzar. Eskiden baba evine veda amac\u0131yla yap\u0131lan bu h\u00fcz\u00fcnl\u00fc gelenek g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fc sabah\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7iftimiz ve onlar\u0131n en yak\u0131nlar\u0131 ad\u0131na ak\u015fam\u0131n heyecan\u0131n\u0131 atmak ad\u0131na k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir e\u011felence olarak adland\u0131rabiliriz.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_slide swiper-slide\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_image wp-image-5597\" data-id=\"5597\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/205.jpg?resize=800%2C531\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_caption gallery-caption\">Son ad\u0131m olmasa da son ad\u0131m say\u0131labilecek kadar hatr\u0131 say\u0131l\u0131r d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fc geldi \u00e7att\u0131. Bu geceye kadar neler halledilmi\u015f bir kontrol edelim; Nikah i\u015flemleri, Nikah \u015fekeri, D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn davetli listesi ve davetiyeler, D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn mekan\u0131, Gelinlik ve Damatl\u0131k, Pasta, D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn arabas\u0131, Sa\u00e7 &#038; Makyaj. Her \u015fey haz\u0131rsa heyecanla bu gecenin kusursuz olmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemekten ba\u015fka bir beklentisi yoktur kimsenin. \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015f, ilk dans, tak\u0131 ve pasta merasimi de sorunsuzsa yolculu\u011fumuzun y\u00fczde doksan dokuzunu kat ettik demektir. Art\u0131k mutluluklar dileriz.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_slide swiper-slide\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_image wp-image-5598\" data-id=\"5598\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/206.jpg?resize=800%2C534\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_caption gallery-caption\">Son ad\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z en sevilen ve bay\u0131la bay\u0131la yap\u0131lan gelene\u011fimiz Balay\u0131. B\u00fct\u00fcn 6 ad\u0131m\u0131n yorgunlu\u011funun at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu ad\u0131m da s\u00f6ylenebilecek tek c\u00fcmle kal\u0131yor &#8216;Onlar ermi\u015f murad\u0131na biz \u00e7\u0131kal\u0131m kerevetine&#8217;<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><a class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_button-prev swiper-button-prev swiper-button-white\" role=\"button\"><\/a><a class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_button-next swiper-button-next swiper-button-white\" role=\"button\"><\/a><a aria-label=\"Pause Slideshow\" class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_button-pause\" role=\"button\"><\/a><div class=\"wp-block-jetpack-slideshow_pagination swiper-pagination swiper-pagination-white\"><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nilsu Dalaran &#8211; D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn Dernek &#8211; Comd 357 Multimedia Journalism Foto Proje Y\u0131llard\u0131r, sevdi\u011finiz insanla hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 birle\u015ftirmek hep uzun ve<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5599,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[689],"tags":[998,999,1001],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/205-1.jpg?fit=544%2C303","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9LQzm-1sb","jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5591"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5591"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5591\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5600,"href":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5591\/revisions\/5600"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5599"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5591"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5591"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bilkentpost.bilkent.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5591"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}